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Areas of Specialization - Children and Adolescents

Conquering Separation Anxiety and Sleep Difficulties


Case example

Sarah is a seven year old girl whose parents divorced three years ago. Sarah had begun to worry about her mother since her parents separated. She is frightened that her mother will be killed in a car accident and terrified of a burglar kidnapping her so that she will never see her mother again. Sarah cries whenever her mother leaves her and she refuses to stay overnight at her father's home. Consequently Sarah's mother rarely makes plans in the evening that do not include Sarah. Whenever Sarah visits with her father, she constantly asks for her mother and cries until she can talk to her on the phone. Since beginning second grade, Sarah has begun to resist going to school and each morning complains of a stomachache. Sarah's mother is exhausted and sometimes allows her to stay home to avoid the frustration of Sarah's tantrums. When Sarah stays home from school she is permitted to watch television and accompany her mother on her errands for the day. Sarah refuses to sleep in her own bed, fears the dark, and complains of nightmares in which her mother is killed. Every night Sarah's mother spends at least two hours trying to convince Sarah to fall asleep in her own bed. However Sarah wakes up in the middle of the night and comes into her mother's bed until the next morning.

Separation Anxiety Disorder is the only anxiety disorder that exclusively occurs in children. The defining characteristics of this separation anxiety are excessive fear regarding separation from parents, caregivers and their home. The typical behaviors and complaints vary with the age but generally include somatic complaints (e.g., stomachaches, headaches, nausea, and vomiting), abandoning extracurricular activities, experiencing strained friendships (e.g., refuse to visit or sleep at friend's homes), weakened academic performance, and complain of specific fears (e.g., monsters, animals, insects, the dark, and fear of getting lost). These children express extreme distress at even the prospect of separation, may show anger or occasionally become physically aggressive. Children with separation anxiety are frequently described as demanding, intrusive, and requiring constant attention, such that parental frustration and family conflict are a characteristic result.

Cognitive Behavioral Treatment in Children and Adolescents - Separation Anxiety>>