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Areas of Specialization - Children and Adolescents

Parenting


Parenting is a complex role that includes many specific behaviors that work individually and together to influence child and adolescent development. When a child or adolescent experiences emotional or behavioral problems, they frequently disrupt family life and cause distress to those in the home. Parents frequently have contrasting parenting styles and disagree on methods of discipline given their unique childhood experiences. However it is extremely important that parents clearly communicate and collaboratively establish rules, limits and consequences that are appropriate to their child's age and are practical to enforce. This is particularly important when a child or adolescent is experiencing significant stress or an unexpected change or transition such as divorce, chronic illness, or moving and changing schools. Parents often need help discussing and coping with these issues in order to ease their child's adjustment to the stress. Thus it is important to be sensitive to any additional factors that may negatively affect a child or adolescent's behavior and emotional functioning.

Parent skills training refers to techniques parents can learn to motivate their child or adolescent to modify and improve their behavior. Child and adolescent behavior management strategies include implementing clear and consistent expectations and consequences, developing reward systems to reinforce positive behavior, creating structure through maintaining routines and schedules, training in giving effective commands rather than negotiating with a young child, and learning proactive problem-solving strategies. Overall parents learn strategies to enhance their child or adolescent's behavior while creating a more harmonious family life. Cognitive behavioral therapy can additionally teach the child or adolescent more effective problem solving and communication techniques, methods to increase their frustration tolerance, and anger management skills.

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